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Overcoming dating fears

I talked about this in my video on social anxiety and dating.

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Shy women usually don’t have the same problems us guys do.[…]Humans compete less for territory than for rank.The attention of the tribe is a kind of psychic territory where we harvest the resources we cooperative apes need to survive.But it is a great way to improve your social skills. Men are wired to feel attraction to a woman whose body displays signs of fertility, health and youth. Guys can like a girl a lot just because of how she looks… Now, I’m not saying that looks are everything to men, but they’re the primary thing that attracts us to a girl in the first place.Meeting people at a business or networking event feels pretty easy when you’ve already gotten past the fear of rejection of talking to beautiful women who could reject you.) Write down a list of 5 places you could go to meet compatible women. I want you to now imagine a girl or woman you have a crush on. Only after we find a girl physically attractive are we open to being even more won over by her personality, common interests, etc. It wired us to be attracted to a women likely to produce healthy kids with great genes.This male desire for youth, health and fertility is also why women have the instinct of adornment.

Almost all women wear makeup to make their lips and eyes look bigger, and almost all guys don’t.

Younger girls also usually wear much more revealing or skintight clothing across most cultures than guys do. Attraction is a feeling that happens automatically in response to some stimulus.

The reason why I’m explaining to you how a man’s attraction system works is so you realize that attraction is not a choice. For men that stimulus is usually visual: long shiny hair, straight white smile, big innocent eyes, a curvy body, etc.

Now here’s where all this science becomes useful to you…

A woman’s attraction system is triggered by much different things than a man’s.

You want high quality images and movies showing women enjoying sexual climax, right?